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The Denver Sanctuary is a Private Social Social Club for folks who practice or are interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. BDSM stands for Bondage/Discipline/Dominance & Submission/Sadomasochism. If you don't know what that all means you probably should not be on this site. Go Google it and come back if you are still interested. We are NOT a swingers club. If you are looking to get your dick wet or want to show off your hot sexy wife and watch her get banged this is NOT the club for you.
At the Denver Sanctuary we offer play party events, which require membership to attend. We also offer a variety of meetings, discussion groups, classes, skill shares, social events that do NOT require membership to attend. These are great events to attend if you just want to check the Sanctuary out and see what it's like before attending a play party.
CLICK HERE FOR THE EVENTS CALENDAR.
ARE YOU VISITING DENVER FROM OUT OF STATE? If you are, and want to attend a play party event at the Denver Sanctuary please send a text message to Love Slave at 720-989-3283 stating what state you are visiting from and what play party you wish to attend. She will ask you a few questions to determine if you can attend the event or not. If you are approved to attend, you will be required sign a waiver at the door, pay whatever the door fee plus a $10 guest fee. Out of state visitors may attend any of the non-member events offered without being approved in advance.
NON-Member Events
We offer many social and educational events that are open to non-members of the Denver Sanctuary because we think education is a good thing, so is socializing with other like minded peeps. Attending any of these event also gives you a chance to check out the club and ask questions before deciding to become a member of the Denver Sanctuary. Anyone 19+ may attend classes, discussion groups or munches.
Current Monthly Non-Member Events: Anyone 19+ may attend, membership is not required.
At the Denver Sanctuary:
1st Sundays: Sanctuary Limit Breaker Open Mic & Pot Luck Social
1st Tuesdays : Hypnokink Denver
2nd Tuesday: Topside Talk
2nd Wednesday: Switch it Up
3rd Wednesday: sub discussion group
3rd Thursday: The Umbrella: A Transgender Support Group
4th Monday: Dynamic Focus group
4th Tuesday: Little Scouts Meeting
4th Wednesday: Socially Awkward Kinkster Totally Non-Threatening Game Night
At The Annex Community Classroom (right next door to the Sanctuary)
Every Thursday night @ 7:30 at The Annex: Kink Sobriety Meeting
Every 3rd Sunday of the month @ 3pm: Neurodivergents in Kink Meeting
Current Monthly CLASSES: Anyone 19+ may attend, membership is not required.
At the Denver Sanctuary:
1st & 3rd Saturdays @ 5pm: Self Defense Classes with KP
Every 2nd Saturday:
~ Denver Rope Bite offers a class from noon-3pm.
~ Fun with Floggers skillshare is 3:30-5pm
At The Annex:
Every Monday night @ The Annex: Drop-in Beginner Rope Classes for couples w/ Denver Bound
Every 1st & 3rd Tuesday @ 7:30: Improv class for everyone
Every Tuesday & Thursday @ 6pm: Clothing Optional Yoga Classes w/mtngrrl
Every Wednesday @ 10 am: Chair/Adaptive Yoga w/mtngrrl
Every 2nd Saturday:
~ BDSM 101 @ noon
~ Welcome to the Dark Side: A guide to the Colorado Kink Community @ 2pm
~ Negotiations 101 @ 4pm:
Every 4th Sunday @ 1pm: K.I.N.K. Essentials: 4 different classes rotated each month
* We also offer other classes/workshops at the Denver Sanctuary and The Annex as the schedule permits. The Annex Community Classroom, next door to the Denver Sanctuary, is an extended educational arm of the Denver Sanctuary. Classes for both spaces will usually be posted on the club calendar and on Fetlife.
WHAT DO YOU NEED A MEMBERSHIP FOR?
You must have a membership to attend play parties. Play parties are events where the dungeon is open for BDSM play. Our space is set up with two social areas, a coat room and a main dungeon. In the dungeon we have 14 stations with a mix of tables, crosses, spanking benches, a hoist, a cage and drop lines that can be used for rope suspension.
CLUB ACCESSIBILITY:
* For those who use wheelchairs: The club is in a warehouse park. There is no handicapped designated parking, but Love Slave is usually there early and you can call her when you arrive so she can move her car to allow space to park out front. There is a small step to get into the entry. We haven't had any wheelchairs not able to navigate into it. We have 2 bathrooms and one is wheelchair accessible. All rooms can accommodate a wheel chair except the small coat room because we have 2 large bean bag chairs in there that kinda spread out. At more crowded events it can be difficult to get through, but you are always welcome to ask for a staff member to help clear a path. Before you watch the videos you are welcome to check the space out at any of the meetings, discussion groups, or social events that do not require membership to attend.
* For those who are neurodivergent/autistic: We have noise reducing headphones in the office you can borrow if it is too loud in the dungeon for you. We also have a basket full of fidget toys in the office if you need something to stim with or keep your hands occupied. Just ask in the office. There is a monthly meeting called Neurodivergents in Kink that meets every 3rd Sunday at The Annex space. We also host a Neurodivergents in Kink Play Party on random Sundays when available.
HOW TO GET A MEMBERSHIP TO THE DENVER SANCTUARY:
Hey! you can also CLICK HERE to watch a video about getting a membership.
You must be 21+ to get a FULL membership to the Denver Sanctuary. If you are 19 or 20 you can get a Special 19-20yr old TNG Membership. All memberships to the Denver Sanctuary are annual memberships, meaning they are good for one year from when it was issued. There are no refunds, full or partial, if you decide you no longer want to attend events at the Denver Sanctuary. There are also no refunds, full or partial, if your membership is revoked due to asshat behavior.
Links to Membership Videos:
BDSM 101 - 35 min
History - 30 min (Note if you are deaf and/or hard of hearing: The History video was posted so long ago that it cannot be captioned through YouTube. Apparently there are programs that will caption videos, if you do not have a program to do this contact Love Slave about a text version)
FOR A FULL MEMBERSHIP:
* Watch the 4 membership videos.
* Attend ANY play party event (only at a play party event) and take the membership test.
* To pass the 20 question, multiple choice test, you cannot get more than 3 answers wrong.
* The fee for a 1st time full membership is $40, IN ADDITION to the door fee for that event.
* Membership is good for one year. To renew your membership costs only $20.
For 19-20 year olds:
* We offer a limited membership for anyone 19 or 20 who wants a membership to the Sanctuary
* You first need to attend the orientation at 1st Thursday TNG Party and stay for the party.
* If you liked the event and want to get a membership then you need to:
** * Watch the 4 membership videos.
** * Attend another TNG (or Baby Bash Party) and take the membership test.
** * To pass the 20 question, multiple choice test, you cannot get more than 3 answers wrong.
** * The fee will be prorated depending on when you turn 21. Not more than $30
** * This TNG membership will renew when you turn 21.
** * Then you upgrade to a full membership for $20
PLEASE NOTE:The test is NOT DIFFICULT if you watch the videos. Actually watch the videos. It will take about 2.5 hours to watch them all. You can't speed through them or sorta watch or sorta listen to them as background noise while doing something else. Some of the questions are not specifically about kink or the club, but about something in the video, that tells me you watched the video. I have read the test to visually impaired people who have passed with 100%. If you have test anxiety and you want to take notes and use them when you take the test, fine with me. If you think watching a bunch of stupid videos is a waste of your time, totally fine with me. I don't want people like you in my club. If you think my rules are stupid, or shouldn't apply to you, I don't want you in my club. The Denver Sanctuary is a private club for a reason. People who are engaging in BDSM activities should have a fucking clue how it all works. You can get HURT if you don't. So, you have to jump through hoops to get a membership. Don't want to get a membership, don't. Go elsewhere. You can always attend Gateway without a membership as long as you attend the orientation and pay the $10 guest fee. I will gladly take an extra $10 every time you attend as a guest if you don't want to get a membership.
Some play parties offer Guest Orientations that non-members may attend so they can check out a play party before investing time in watching all the videos.
These events offer a Guest Orientation :
* 1st Thur TNG Play Party (door @ 7pm, orientation at 7:30pm)
* 2nd Friday Gateway ( Door @ 8pm, Orientation @ 8:30pm)
* 4th Saturday Gateway ( Door @ 8pm, Orientation @ 8:30pm)
NEW IN 2025: How to get a Sanctuary membership WITHOUT having to watch the videos and take the test.
Many Many Moons ago, if you wanted to get a membership to the Denver Sanctuary you had to attend Love Slave Explains it All at the club. It was a 2.5 hour class that included a BDSM 101, club rules and etiquette. Then she moved to Florida for a couple years. While she was gone, there wasn't enough staff who had the time to do the class in her absence - so she made the videos for folks to watch and she added the test to ensure folks watched the videos. That was in 2016.
In 2023 she made new videos to update some things that changed a bit after fucking Covid, so now there are 4 videos. While the test is not difficult if you watch the video, many have expressed having test anxiety.
Love Slave has decided to throw a couple LIVE versions of the videos, bringing back Love Slave Explains it All, on the calendar. At these classes folx will be able to purchase a membership at the end of the class. No videos to watch. No test to take. Just sit and listen to her ramble on for a few hours and then pay for your membership and you are good to go!
The upcoming dates for this class are:
Saturday, 2/22 @ 2pm @ The Annex
Monday, 3/10 @ 7:15 @ Denver Sanctuary
Sun 3/23 @ 1pm @ Denver Sanctuary
WHEN ARE THE PLAY PARTIES?
The Denver Sanctuary is open most Friday & Saturday nights from 8pm - 1am. We have some specialty play party events on some Thursdays from 7pm - midnight. Friday nights are more specialty events and Saturdays are planned for the general membership. ALL play party events are 21+ unless stated otherwise in the event description. The door fee for ALL play parties is $25/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. A $10 additional guest fee applies to all non-members who attend. We only accept cash and venmo at the door. There is an additional $1.00 fee for all Venmo transactions.
Here is a list of our current monthly parties:
(Some have links to video descriptions of that party)
1st Thursdays: DenverTNG Play Party. TNG stands for The Next Generation. Not like Star Trek... these events are restricted for attendees ages 19-35 only. Attendees in that age range may escort their partners who are over 35 into the event. TNG Play Parties take place every 1st Thursday from 7:00pm til midnight. Sometimes the parties have a theme or offer a class/discussion at the beginning of the party.
1st Fridays: Rocky Mountain Spanking Party. This is our monthly spanko party. The only form of play allowed is play that involves the spanking of butts and thighs. You can only use toys like your hand, paddles, canes, hair brushes, spoons and the like. The only nudity allowed is the butt and back of thighs.
1st Saturdays: The Mile-High Leather Collective BDSM Play Party: This monthly party offers some special elements such as a social hour with served treats, appetizers and mock tails. Boot-blacks are also available at this event. Even though this event leans towards those who embrace the "leather lifestyle", all club members are welcome.
2nd Thursdays: FEMDOMONIUM This event celebrates Femdoms and those who serve them. At this event Any female identifying person wishing to be a royalty for the night can attend as a Queen. From 7:30 to 8:30 there is a Royalty social up front. Anyone attending solo and wants to be in service to a Queen spends that 1st hour in the dungeon preparing for the Parade of Possibilities. In the parade, Possibilities are introduced one at a time to the attending Royalty and state of they are available for play or service or as eye candy or any combination thereof. After the parade the dungeon is open for play.
2nd Fridays & 4th Saturdays : GATEWAY PLAY PARTY. This is our original "Newbie Night" at the Denver Sanctuary. This is the twice a month party that non-members may attend as long as they attend the guest orientation at 8:30pm. The Guest Orientation is about 20 minutes long. After the orientation folx are welcome to stay for the play party and check out the activities in the dungeon or hang out in the social area. We usually have a toybag tour where a club member displays their toys for folks to look at and ask questions. This is the best way to check out a play party and will help you decide if you want to become a member.
2nd Saturdays: Birthday Shenanigans: Every 2nd Saturday we celebrate birthdays at the club. At 8:30pm we have cake and sing "Happy Birthday you Kinky Fuckers" to anyone who has a birthday that month. Then the B-Day Peeps can run through the gauntlet of slappy hands from the Dollar Store if they desire. If your birthday is that month then no door fee for this party! (Guests with birthdays that month don't pay the door fee, but still need to pay the guest fee of $10.)
3rd Fridays: Primal Night (Odd Months) or Trans-Tastic (Even Months). Primal Night is a night focused on Primal Play. The dungeon is set up to allow for more space for wrestling and contact play. The Trans-Tastic Play Party event is to celebrate all things Transgender, Non-Binary, Genderqueer, and otherwise Gender-expansive!
3rd Saturdays: varies each month: No theme (Jan), Tryst (Feb), Kink as Art (Mar), Black & Blue Ball (April), Drag it Out (May), Kinky Carnival (June), Tryst (July), Leather Party (August), Naughty students & teachers (Sept), Blood Bath Horror (Oct), McGyver Competition (Nov), Holiday Party (Dec) Descriptions for these events will be available on Fetlife and the website calendar.
4th Fridays: Baby Bash. This is an age play and pet play party hosted by the Denver Littles Crawl (DLC). This event is for anyone 19+. For this event the middle room is turned into a play room with legos, blocks, a doll house, a ball pit and more. There is a diaper changing station available. Coloring and arts in crafts usually in the front room. The dungeon is also open for ALL FORMS OF PLAY.
Random Sunday Soirees: If Love Slave is in town and feels like it, she will host an early party on a Sunday from 5-9pm, usually with some kind of food theme. She likes to cook for folx! Whenever these are scheduled they will be on the calendar and fetlife.com
As long as you have your expired card you can just present it at any play party and renew. The fee will be $20 in addition to whatever the stated door fee is. If you do NOT have your expired membership card, and Love Slave does not know you personally, you have to start over and follow the current membership procedure. If your membership expires and you renew, your new membership begins the day you renew. You do NOT have to pay for the lapsed months from when it expired to when you renew.
CAN MEMBERS BRING GUESTS?
Yes. Any member with a membership card may bring in as many guests as they are willing to be responsible for. Guests may not enter before the member arrives and may not stay after the member leaves. Guests will be required to sign a waiver and pay a $10 guest fee in addition to whatever the $25 door fee is. If members are bringing guests to Gateway or TNG, the guests are NOT required to attend the orientation. They may arrive any time the members arrives and that can be after the orientation.
* All Play Parties: $25 door fee
* Guest Fee for Play Parties: All non-members pay a $10 guest fee in addition to the door fee.
* Membership fees:
$40 for New Full Memberships,
$20 for Renewal Full Memberships.
NOTE: Cash is always preferred at the door. Venmo also accepted with a $1.00 fee.
2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1
Denver, CO 80219
SOLID PURPLE DOOR.
We share the space with Dangerous Theatre, which may come up with GPS.
The Annex Community Classroom is next door:
2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 2
Denver, CO 80219
GLASS DOOR
General info in a nutshell:
* Membership is NOT required to attend non-play party events like meetings, discussion groups, classes, and game night. Anyone 19+ welcome.
* MEMBERSHIP is required to attend play parties.
* The TNG Party and Gateway Play Parties offer guest orientations.
* In general, you must be 21 to attend play parties unless otherwise stated in the event description.
* TNG Play Parties are limited to folx 19-35 in age
* Current Members may bring non-member guests (additional $10 guest fee)
* Snacks and water available for free. Folx are welcome to bring their own beverages to drink as long as it is in a screw top container. NO ALCOHOL allowed.
*How do I contact Love Slave, owner of the Denver Sanctuary?
* Text her at 720-989-3283.
* Message her through her Fetlife profile.
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