CURRENT COVID POLICY. Updated February 6, 2022
We will no longer check vax status at the door and masks are optional.

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PLEASE! PLEASE! PLEASE! For the love of all that is kinky, read this entire site before you contact Love Slave and ask her questions that are answered on this page. It is only ONE PAGE and will take you maybe 10 minutes to read ALL OF IT. Thank you in advance!


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The Denver Sanctuary is a PRIVATE MEMBERSHIP Social Club for folks who practice or are interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. BDSM stands for Bondage/Discipline/Dominance & Submission/Sadomasochism. If you don't know what that all means you probably should not be on this site. Go Google it and come back if you are still interested. We are NOT a swingers club. If you are looking to get your dick wet or want to show off your hot sexy wife and watch her get banged this is NOT the club for you.


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ARE YOU VISITING DENVER FROM OUT OF STATE?   If you are, and want to attend a play party event at the Denver Sanctuary send a text message to Love Slave at 720-989-3283 (at least 48 hours in advance) stating what state you are visiting from and what play party you wish to attend. (CLICK HERE for our event calendar) She will ask you a few questions to determine if you can attend. If approved, you will need to watch the rules video, sign a waiver at the door, pay whatever the door fee is for that event plus the $10 guest fee. Out of state visitors may attend any of the non-member events offered without being approved in advance. Just text Love Slave for the address.

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We offer many social and educational events that are open to non-members of the Denver Sanctuary because we think education is a good thing, so is socializing with other like minded peeps. Attending any of these event also gives you a chance to check out the club and ask questions before deciding to become a member of the Denver Sanctuary


Anyone 19+ may attend classes, discussion groups or munches. Here is what we currently have on our schedule that non-members may attend.


Current Non-Member Events:

1st, 2nd & 3rd Mondays: Membership Orientations

1st Tuesdays : Hypnokink Denver

1st Wednesdays: BDSM Crosstalk

2nd Tuesday: Topside Talk

2nd Wednesday: Switch it Up

3rd Wednesday: sub discussion

4th Monday: Monday Munch

4th Tuesday: Baby Talk

4th Wednesday: Socially Awkward Kinkster Totally Non-Threatening Game Night

4th Sundays: Stuffie Show & Tell and Storytime with Momma Christine


CLASSES: We try to offer a variety of classes on most Saturdays. Every 1st Saturday at noon is a rope class. Every 2nd Saturday we try to schedule a "Scene in a Day" that offers instruction for an entire scene from negotiations right up to after care. Classes are usually more up to date on Fetlife posted under the club profile: DenverSanctuary.


For more information about what each of these events are about.........

CLICK HERE to go to our event calendar. Once you are in the calendar, if you click on the event title it will open up to a full description.


WHAT DO YOU NEED A MEMBERSHIP FOR?


You must have a membership to attend play parties. Play parties are events where the dungeon is open for BDSM play. Our space is set up with two social areas, a coat room and a main dungeon. In the dungeon we have 14 stations with a mix of tables, crosses, spanking benches, a hoist, a cage and drop lines that can be used for rope suspension. We do have a Gateway Play Party every 4th Saturday with a guest orientation that non-members may attend. The Gateway orientation is a GUEST orientation and NOT the Membership Orientation. More details below.


WHEN ARE THE PLAY PARTIES?


* SATURDAY NIGHTS:  The Denver Sanctuary is open most Saturday nights to the general membership from 8:30pm to 2am. Our 2nd and 4th Saturdays have the same events every month and the other Saturdays are on a rotating schedule of events. These parties are all 21+ unless stated otherwise in the event description. The door fee for all Saturday parties is $25/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door.


 ~~~ CAKE & SPANK w/ Arts & Crafts ~OR~ Demo scene with Q&A.  Every 2nd Saturday we celebrate birthdays at the club. At 9pm we have cupcakes and sing "Happy Birthday you Kinky Fuckers" to anyone who has a birthday that month. Then the B-Day Peeps can run through the gauntlet of slappy hands from the  Dollar Store if they desire. AFTER that we either have an Arts & Crafts project planned OR we have a Demo scene on the stage in the dungeon. Folx are encouraged to watch the entire scene from start to finish, followed by a Q&A with the couple who did the demo scene. This is a great night for new folks to attend.


~~~ GATEWAY PLAY PARTY every 4th Saturday.   This is our original "Newbie Night" at the Denver Sanctuary. This is the once a month party that non-members may attend as long as they are there for the guest orientation at 9pm. The GUEST orientation is about 25 minutes long. After the orientation folx are welcome to stay for the play party and check out the activities in the dungeon or hang out in the social area. We usually have a toybag tour where a club member displays their toys for folks to look at and ask questions. This is the best way to check out a play party and will help you decide if you want to become a member. NOTE: The orientation offered at Gateway is strictly a GUEST orientation, NOT a Membership Orientation. You cannot take the membership test at Gateway.


~~~ OTHER SATURDAY NIGHTS:  We have a variety of events that rotate through the year.

* Taste of Kink. 4X/year. Where Sanctuary members offer up tasting stations for folks to try  a variety of kinky forms of play from flogging to canes to paddles to electricity to rope and more.

* Top Taste. 4X/year. Similar to the Taste of Kink but this is where we have a handful of 4 - 5 members who are available to mentor other tops in various forms of play and learn a new skill.

* TRYST. 4X/year. This is an event to help folks make new friends and meet potential play partners. Anyone who wants to can join in on some ice breaker games from 9 to 10pm.

* PANdemonium 4X/year. This is an event that is a take off from Femdomonium (listed below). At this event there is a Topside social in the front rooms from 8:30 - 9:30 for all the Top/Dominant/Master types. During this time solo/bottom folx are sequestered to the dungeon area. At 8:30 we have a "Parade of Possibilities" where the bottom folx are introduced one at a time to the available Tops. Absolutely fun chaos that gets folks to meet new play partners and usually leads to lots of play.

* Kinky Carnival 2X/year. This is just a fun event we hold in January when it is cold a dreary and we need some fun after the holidays. We also hold it on 4th of July weekend. At this event we have a bunch of kinky (and not so kinky) games that people play to win candy and prizes. For example we usually have 2 kinds of Cock Ring Toss!

* Black & Blues Ball every May.  This is an event where we think back to our high school years and decorate the club like a prom, we crown a King & Queen and have a balloon arch for photos.

*McGyver Competition every November the Saturday before Thanksgiving.  This is a fun event where Love Slave buys a bunch of really random items at the Dollar Store and then contestants have to use those items in a scene. Almost like a kinky Iron Chef! Those not competing watch the scenes and vote on their favorites.


* 3rd FRIDAYS.  Usually the club is closed on Friday nights. Sometimes we have parties on the 3rd Friday of the month. These parties may have a music theme or a focus on a specific form of play. Check the calendar to see when they are scheduled. The door fee for all Friday parties is $25/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door.


* TNG Play Parties.  TNG stands for The Next Generation. Not like Star Trek... these events are restricted for attendees ages 19-35 only. Attendees in that age range may escort their partners who are over 35 into the event. TNG Play Parties take place every 1st Thursday and 3rd Tuesday from 7:30pm til midnight. Sometimes the parties have a theme or offer a class/discussion at the beginning of the party. TNG play parties (& Baby Bash) are the ONLY parties 19 & 20 year olds may attend alone, on their own. 19 & 20 year olds may only get a Limited TNG Membership. Once they have this membership they ARE ALLOWED to attend other events as long as they are escorted in with a full member. The door fee for all TNG parties is $15/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door.


* FEMDOMONIUM every 2nd Thursday from 7:30pm to midnight. This event celebrates Femdoms and those who serve them. At this event Any female identifying person wishing to be a royalty for the night can attend as a Queen. From 7:30 to 8:30 there is a Royalty social up front. Anyone attending solo and wants to be in service to a Queen spends that 1st hour in the dungeon preparing for the Parade of Possibilities. In the parade, Possibilities are introduced one at a time to the attending Royalty and state of they are available for play or service or as eye candy or any combination thereof. After the parade the dungeon is open for play. The door fee for Femdomonium parties is $15/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door. There is a special membership for folks who only attend this party. Details below.


* ROCKY MOUNTAIN SPANKING PARTIES every 2nd Sunday from 7:30 to midnight. This is our monthly spanko party. The only form of play allowed is play that involves the spanking of butts and thighs. You can only use toys like your hand, paddles, canes, hair brushes, spoons and the like. The only nudity allowed is the butt and back of thighs. The door fee for the spanking parties is $15/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door. There is a special membership for folks who only attend this party. Details below.


* The DLC BABY BASH every 3rd Sunday  from 7:30 to midnight. This is an age play and pet play party hosted by the Denver Littles Crawl (DLC). This event is for anyone 19+. For this event the middle room is turned into a play room with legos, blocks, a doll house, a ball pit and more. There is a diaper changing station available. Coloring and arts in crafts usually in the front room. The dungeon is also open for ALL FORMS OF PLAY. The door fee for Baby Bash parties is $15/person unless otherwise stated in the event description. We only accept cash and venmo at the door. There is a special membership for folks who only attend this party. Details below.


HOW TO GET A MEMBERSHIP TO THE DENVER SANCTUARY:

All memberships to the Denver Sanctuary are annual memberships, meaning they are good for one year from when it was issued. There are no refunds, full or partial, if you decide you no longer want to attend events at the Denver Sanctuary. There are also no refunds, full or partial, if your membership is revoked due to asshat behavior. If your membership expires and you renew, your new membership begins the day you renew. You do NOT have to pay for the lapsed months from when it expired to when you renew.


DO YOU NEED TO RENEW AN EXPIRED MEMBERSHIP?

As long as you have your expired card you can just present it at any play party and renew. The fee will be $20 in addition to whatever the stated door fee is. If you do NOT have your expired membership card, and Love Slave does not know you personally, you have to start over and follow the procedure below to get a membership.


Annual FULL Membership: If you are 21+ and want it all you must do the following:

* Watch all 3 membership videos that are linked in RED at the top of the page. 2.5 hours for all 3.

* Attend a New Member Orientation on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd Monday (2.5 hours also)

* Take the membership test at the end of orientation.

* Pass the membership test and pay your membership fee.

* 1st Time FULL Annual Memberships will cost $40.
* Renewal FULL memberships will only cost $20.

* We only accept cash or venmo

Annual TNG Membership for anyone 19 or 20.

* Watch all 3 membership videos that are linked in RED at the top of the page. 2.5 hours for all 3.
* Attend a New Member Orientation on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd Monday (2.5 hours also)
* Take the membership test at the end of orientation.
* Pass the membership test and pay your membership fee.
* TNG Annual Memberships will cost $30.

* We only accept cash or venmo.
* TNG Memberships can be upgraded to full memberships when  you turn 21.

* The TNG Membership allows you to attend the TNG Parties and Baby Bash alone. IF you want to attend any of the 21+ parties you must be escorted by a full member into those events.


Annual Femdomonium Membership:
If you are 21+ and this is the only play party you think you would attend, we have a special membership just for this event. To get this membership:

* Attend a New Membership Orientation on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd Monday (2.5 hours)

* Purchase your membership after the orientation. NO test required, videos optional.

* We only accept cash or venmo
* 1st Time Femdomonium Annual Memberships will cost $20.
* Renewal Femdomonium memberships will only cost $10.


Annual Spanko Membership:
If you are 21+ and this is the only play party you think you would attend, we have a special membership just for this event. To get this membership:
* Attend a New Membership Orientation on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd Monday (2.5 hrs) OR right before the party at 6:30 on the 2nd Sunday of the month (1 hour).
* Purchase your membership after the orientation. NO test required, videos optional.
* We only accept cash or venmo
* 1st Time Spanko Annual Memberships will cost $20.
* Renewal Spanko memberships will only cost $10.


Annual Baby Bash Membership: If you are 19+ and this is the only play party you think you would attend, we have a special membership just for this event. To get this membership:
* Attend a New Membership Orientation on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd Monday (2.5 hours) OR right before the party at 6:30 on the 3rd Sunday of the month (1 hour).
* Purchase your membership after the orientation. NO test required, videos optional.
* We only accept cash or venmo
* 1st Time Baby Bash Annual Memberships will cost $20.
* Renewal Baby Bash memberships will only cost $10.

WHEN ARE THE NEW MEMBER ORIENTATIONS?

Every 1st, 2nd & 3rd Mondays.

* Anyone 19+ may attend

* Door opens at 7:00

* Orientation starts at 7:30ish. (no late entry once it starts)

* Orientation ends around 9:00

* Anyone who watched the videos (Links for all 3 of the videos are at the top of the page) and wants a FULL or TNG Membership may take the test. If you have NOT watched the videos you will NOT pass the test. If you think you can take the test and pass it WITHOUT watching the video because you are "good at taking tests" or "I know a lot about BDSM." Trust me when I (Love Slave, owner of the Sanctuary) tell you I am not that stupid. The questions on the test are not difficult, but they are meant to test if you watched the videos.

* Anyone who wants a Femdomonium, Spanko or Baby Bash Membership may purchase one. No test required for the specialty memberships.

* Folks 19+ who just want to check the club out are also welcome to attend and not purchase a membership at the end. There is a $5/fee for just gathering information.

* FULL Memberships are $40 if you pass the test, cash/venmo only

* TNG Memberships are $30 if you pass the test, cash/venmo only

* Femdomonium, Spanko or Baby Bash Memberships are $20, cash/venmo only (no test)

* Just attending to gather information costs $5.00, cash/venmo only


Every 2nd Sunday @ 6:30, before the Rocky Mountain Spanking Party is an Orientation for non members who only want the SPANKO membership. The door opens at 6:15. You pay your membership and door fee upon entry ($35 cash/venmo only). The orientation starts at 6:30. No late entry. The orientation takes about an hour and the Spanking Party will be immediately after at 7:30.

Every 3rd Sunday @ 6:30, before the Baby Bash Party is an Orientation for non members who only want the Baby Bash membership. The door opens at 6:15. You pay your membership and door fee upon entry ($35 cash/venmo only). The orientation starts at 6:30. No late entry. The orientation takes about an hour and the Baby Bash Party will be immediately after at 7:30.

Can't do Mondays? If you absolutely, positively can't make it on a Monday and want a FULL or TNG membership send a text message to Love Slave at 720-989-3283 and ask her what your other options are. Note: If you text her on a Wednesday asking for a special orientation just because you want to attend the event that Saturday, she will say no and think you are an entitled asshat.


Why are the videos REQUIRED?
* Love Slave, owner of the Sanctuary, wants people to have a clue about BDSM.

* History is important even though most folks don't give a shit.

* She expects her rules to be followed.


Where are the videos? The 3 membership video links are at the top of the page in RED
. Since many people can't seem to find them I will link there here as well.

BDSM101 video - 90 minutes

Colorado Kink History - 30 minutes

Denver Sanctuary Rules Video - 30 minutes

Also, it amazes me (Love Slave, owner of the club) how many people think they can take the test and pass it WITHOUT watching the video because they are "good at taking tests" or "I know a lot about BDSM." Trust me when I tell you I am not that stupid. The questions on the test are not difficult but they are meant to test if you watched the videos.


CAN MEMBERS BRING GUESTS?

Yes. Any member with a membership card may bring in as many guests as they are willing to be responsible for. Guests may not enter before the member arrives and may not stay after the member leaves. Guests will be required to sign a waiver and pay a $10 guest fee in addition to whatever the stated door fee is. If members are bringing guests to Gateway on 4th Saturday, the guests are NOT required to attend the orientation at 9pm. They may arrive any time the members arrives and that can be after 9pm.


HOW MUCH DOES THIS COST?


* Friday & Saturday Play Parties: $25 door fee

* TNG Parties: $15 door fee

* Femdomonium, Spanko & Baby Bash parties: $15 door fee
* Guest Fee for Play Parties: All non-members pay a $10 guest fee in addition to whatever the stated door fee is for that play party.

* Renewal FULL Membership fee: $20, paid in addition to any play party door fee.


WHERE IS THE DENVER SANCTUARY LOCATED?


* Near downtown Denver close to the interchange of I25 and 6th Ave.

* If you need the address, send a text message to Love Slave at 720-989-3283 telling her what event you wish to attend and she will reply with location information.

 

General info in a nutshell:

* Membership is NOT required to attend non-play party events like meetings, discussion groups, classes, game night and the munch. Anyone 19+ welcome.

* MEMBERSHIP is required to attend play parties.

* Gateway Play Parties on 4th Saturdays offer a GUEST orientation at the beginning of the event so non-members can come check out the club. This is NOT the Membership Orientation and you CANNOT take the membership test at Gateway.

* Saturday Play Parties are 21+.

* TNG Play Parties are limited to folx 19-35 in age

* Current Members may bring non-member guests (additional $10 guest fee)
* Sheets and after care blankets are no longer provided for free, but may be rented for $1 each

* Snacks and water available for free. Folx are welcome to bring their own beverages to drink as long as it is in a screw top container. NO ALCOHOL allowed. In the winter months (October - April) we also have coffee and hot cocoa available for free. In the summer months (May - September) we have bottled soda available for $1/each.
* On Fridays & Saturdays the door opens at 8:30, dungeon closes at 1:30am, everyone out by 2am.

* TNG and other specialty parties the door opens at 7:30, dungeon closes at 11:30, everyone out by 11:59 because we don't want anyone turning into a pumpkin in the club.

* Please click the blue calendar link at the top of the page for further details for all events.


*How do I contact Love Slave, owner of the Denver Sanctuary?
* Text her at 720-989-3283.

* Don't call, she probably won't answer and will probably delete the voicemail.

* Message her through her Fetlife profile.


SEE! It didn't take long to read the entire page and now you know more about the Denver Sanctuary than when you started. BRAVO! Cookie for you!