CurrentUpdate: July 29, 2020

The Denver Sanctuary is a PRIVATE MEMBERSHIP Social Club for folks who practice or are interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Currently the club is open for restricted play parties which require membership to attend. We also have a number of classes on the calendar geared to newer folks and attendance to them does NOT require membership.


PRIOR to COVID-19 we offered play parties as well as a variety of meetings, discussion groups, classes and social events. Most of the meetings and discussion groups are on hiatus or meeting online until social distancing is not necessary. Please check the calendar, link at the top of the page (blue), for updated information. If you click the title of the event another window will open with all the information about the event.


HOW TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE DENVER SANCTUARY:


* Watch 3 membership videos

* Take a 15 question multiple choice test

* Pass with no more than 3 wrong answers

* Pay the annual $20 member ship fee (in addition to play party door fee)

Why are the videos REQUIRED?

* Love Slave, owner of the Sanctuary, wants people to have a clue about BDSM.

* History is important even though most folks don't give a shit.

* She expects her rules to be followed.


Where are the videos? The membership video links are at the top of the page in red.


WHEN CAN I TAKE MY MEMBERSHIP TEST?


* Any play party event (only if attending with someone else, no singles allowed at the moment)

* 3rd Monday Membership Testing and New Member Tour Nights. Singles may attend this event.


WHAT'S THE 3rd MON. MEMBERSHIP TESTING AND NEW MEMBER TOUR?

Since we have to limit attendance at play parties this is a night for singles (or couples) to come take the test, get a tour and orientation from Love Slave and get a little bit of a toybag tour. It gives folks a chance to check out the club and ask questions and meet other new members. Attendance limited 1st come, 1st available. Cost to attend is $20, the cost of membership. cash/venmo only at the door.


HOW DO I RENEW AN EXPIRED MEMBERSHIP?


* If you still have your expired card, bring to any play party event

* Take a 10 question refresher test (not a pass/fail, we just let you know what you got wrong)

* pay the $20 annual membership fee in addition to the door fee


* If you no longer have your card you have to watch the videos and start over with the new membership testing process outlined above.


WHAT CAN I EXPECT AT A PLAY PARTY?

Watch the video at the top of the page for a video tour by Love Slave.


HOW MUCH DOES THIS COST?

NOTE: Even though I am limited in attendance, I am NOT raising any of the door fees as I feel that would leave too many unable to attend.

Fees:
$25 Saturday Night event fee
$15 TNG or Sunday Full Night event fee
$20 Membership fee: This is paid IN ADDITION to the door fee if you are ready to take/pass the Membership test to become a FULL Member.


HOW TO PAY FOR FEE?

We only accept cash or venmo at the door.


WHERE IS THE DENVER SANCTUARY LOCATED?


* Near downtown Denver close to the interchange of I25 and 6th Ave.

* If you need the address, send a text message to Christine at 720-989-3283 telling her what event you wish to attend and she will reply with location information.


WHEN ARE THE PLAY PARTIES?


UPDATE July 29, 2020 - The club is open every Saturday Night with the following restrictions:


* This event is open only to members of the Denver Sanctuary.

* This event is only open to couples/partners (or more) who come with the intent to play together. The couples do not have to be in a relationship beyond playing together, but all parties must arrive together to enter. Playing can mean using a piece of dungeon equipment or hanging out together in the front room playing a game, or a couple people who have met on Fet and want a safe place to meet and negotiate play or get to know one another. You can even bring a friend and sit up front and color together.

* No single individuals attending alone, even if members, for the time being. I apologize for the exclusion but due to COVID this is necessary for the time being. NOTE: There is a group on Fetlife.com called "I want to play at the Sanctuary". You are welcome to post to that group and see if there is someone else like you looking for a play partner. You could both chat and see if compatible. Then if you are, agree to meet together at the club. My definition of couple is not to mean "in a relationship" just 2 people attending together. Even if you both showed up and decided not to play, but be in a safe space to talk, that would be fine as well.

* NO GUESTS. Current members may not bring guests. If you bring a non-member they need to be ready to take the membership test to attend with you. No guest orientation will be offered.

* Couples may come together and take the membership test and become members to attend.

LIMITED HOURS: Door opens at 8:45, everyone out by 12:30.

Door fee: $25 for current members

If you take the test for membership it is an additional $20 for membership.


1st Thursday and 3rd Tuesday TNG Play Parties still taking place as follows:


* This event is open only to members of the Denver Sanctuary between the age of 19-35. Anyone in that age range is allowed to escort in a partner who is above that age limit.

* This event is only open to couples/partners (or more) who come with the intent to play together. The couples do not have to be in a relationship beyond playing together, but all parties must arrive together to enter. Playing can mean using a piece of dungeon equipment or hanging out together in the front room playing a game, or a couple people who have met on Fet and want a safe place to meet and negotiate play or get to know one another. You can even bring a friend and sit up front and color together.

* No single individuals attending alone, even if members, for the time being. I apologize for the exclusion but due to COVID this is necessary for the time being. NOTE: There is a group on Fet called [I want to play at the Sanctuary][https://fetlife.com/groups/12360?sp=2]. You are welcome to post to that group and see if there is someone else like you looking for a play partner. You could both chat and see if compatible. Then if you are, agree to meet together at the club. My definition of couple is not to mean "in a relationship" just 2 people attending together. Even if you both showed up and decided not to play, but be in a safe space to talk, that would be fine as well.

* NO GUESTS. Current members may not bring guests. If you bring a non-member they need to be ready to take the membership test to attend with you. No guest orientation will be offered.

* Couples may come together and take the membership test and become members to attend.

LIMITED HOURS: Door opens at 7:30, everyone out by 11:30.

Door fee: $15 for current members

If you take the test for membership it is an additional $20 for membership.

2nd Sunday Rocky Mountain Spanking Party

This party is on hold until it can be held safely. Please check back for details.


3rd Sunday Baby Bash: An Age Play and Pet Play Party

This party is on hold until it can be held safely. Please check back for details.


Star Player and Free Door Pass Parties

Prior to the fucking virus there are folks who have earned free door passes as staff or won them in contests. Star Players have membership cards that give them free access to play parties. Due to the limited attendance and reopening to 3 months in back rent due, these will not be accepted at regular play parties through the rest of 2020. Every 1st Monday of the month is the Star Player and Staff Party. Check the calendar for details.


MONTHLY MEETINGS, DISCUSSION GROUPS & CLASSES?


Still meeting live:

* 1st Tuesdays: K.I.N.K Essentials Classes- 7-8:30

* 2nd Tuesdays: Dominant Discussion Group 7:00-8:30

* 3rd Mondays Test Taking, Tour and Orientation - 7:30-9:00.

Meeting online:

* 3rd Wednesdays Submissive Group meeting

On Hiatus:

* The Switch Group Meeting

* Denver Ms. Kinky Scouts

* The Socially Awkward Kinkster Totally non-threatening Game Night


* There are a bunch of classes scheduled, click the calendar link above (in Blue). If you click on the event title it will open a window with all the details.


How do I contact Love Slave, owner of the Denver Sanctuary?
* Text her at 720-989-3283.

* Don't call, she won't answer and will probably delete the voicemail.

* Message her through her Fetlife profile.